For some it’s all about the diamond engagement ring, for others, it’s a mutual decision to take the next step in their lives together. We sat down with Alison & Beth, two women wildly in love, about their relationship and why a big emphasis on a proposal just wasn’t them.

Captured by March 13 Photography

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

DWH: Who are you both? Individually and as a couple.

A & B: As a couple, we are best friends who talk about everything, push each other to reach our goals and put the other person first. Individually, Alison is an editor who loves to dance, horseback ride, and read all the books she can get her hands on. Beth is also an editor, but she can bake like no one’s business, loves art, plays soccer, and is currently training for her fourth marathon.

 

DWH: How did you meet?

A & B: We met while working for a magazine. Saying it was love, at first sight, sounds so cheesy, but it was. We became friends first, but we had such an amazing connection that our feelings were impossible to ignore.

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

DWH: Tell us a little about your love story, what is your favourite thing about one another, how did you know she was the one?

A: I remember when I first met Beth, I used to walk over to her desk every morning to talk to her, and when I did it felt like I was standing in the sun. I felt so warm and good just having her eyes on me. I admired Beth’s strength and her brilliant mind. I loved how athletic she was, and how she was the kind of person who could just make things happen because she’s so proactive. I fell so hard and so fast. I remember thinking so early on in knowing her: Wouldn’t it be so incredible if I married this woman? And I did. And it’s the best thing.

B: Alison and I connected on so many levels—I knew right away that a life with her would never be without good conversation. And I guess that’s how you know it’s the real thing…you automatically envision growing old with the other person. We were friends for a couple of years before we started dating, but every day felt like a building block for our future together.

 

DWH: We want all the details on the proposal! How did it all happen?

A: We decided to talk about marriage and decide on it together! We thought long and hard about proposals, and in the end, we decided that it wasn’t entirely right for us. I had watched a bunch of my female friends wait for their boyfriends to propose, and they always seemed to feel so stressed and frustrated by the process of just waiting for their guy to pop the question. Since this was going to be a mutual life decision, why not just talk it out the way you would discuss any other mutual life decision (like buying a house or moving or having kids). We did want to commemorate the occasion though, so after we decided that we wanted to get married, I asked a friend of mine if she could make us an engagement quilt. We picked out a colour palette and design and asked her to embroider our names and the date on there. When it came in the mail, we had a nice candlelit dinner and then we opened the box together. After that, we were engaged.

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

Lesbian Engagement - Dancing With Her Magazine

DWH: How is wedding planning going for you both? What have been the challenges, or things that are easier than expected?

A & B: Wedding planning is so fun but so intense. We’re having a non-traditional wedding with a lot of fun elements (an acapella group during the ceremony, a drum line at the end of the night, 7 different flavoured cakes so guests can get multiple slices, a fire pit, etc.), so deciding on all of that has been a blast. Our relationship is special, and we want to our wedding to capture that.


Photography March 13 Photography