For Camilla & Ked, sometimes
DWH: How did you meet?
C: We went to the same high school but, strangely, never met! It wasn’t until Ked walked up to me in the campus bookstore while I was standing in line, juggling a stack of novels and Psych textbooks and struck a conversation (while she was already on the phone with someone else!) Turns out, we were in two psychology classes together, but after that we went our separate ways until the next semester, when we were grouped together in Sexuality class for heated discussions. From then on, we had a strong, unconventional bond that was only compounded by our differences. We wanted to tell each other everything all the time, and we wanted to reach middle ground about the most controversial topics.
DWH: What is your favourite memory together?
C: After we’d been together about 6 months, we planned a road trip from Vancouver Island all the way down to Santa Barbara, stopping all along the coast and visiting my uncle and his family. We were both so drawn to the Ancient Redwood forests of California, the Oregon Coast, and San Francisco. It was a struggle. Travelling in the same car with someone for long periods of time brings much to the surface that we couldn’t run away from, but we grew really close. We stopped in Eugene to see a concert by Gregory Alan Isakov, our favourite. I don’t remember ever feeling so present, so grounded, around a crowd of people. That night felt like the beginning and end of everything I ever knew.
DWH: What is been the biggest challenge you’ve had to overcome together?
C:A few days after that concert, my dad passed away suddenly. We were still in Oregon and had to frantically drive back home. Ked was my anchor, and still is. She drove for hours while I sat there in complete numbness. She didn’t leave my side for days. Throughout that summer, I developed a severe fear of abandonment and a mistrust for everyone close to me. This, in turn, triggered Ked’s independence and desire for solitude. We were stuck in patterns of fighting and discordance. It was tricky, messy, and painful, and we made it through the worst of it.
DWH: Tell us your favourite thing about one another.
K: Camilla is caring, loving, and patient beyond what others would deal with. She is driven and soft-spoken at the same time. She reminds me of the forest. She is gentle.
C: Ked is fiery, feisty, and has a great sense of humour. She is independent but would do anything for me. She is incredibly loyal and possesses a strong social intelligence which allows her to get along with and understand almost anyone.
DWH: What’s in the future for you both?
C: Next year, Ked is moving back to Thailand with her family for a while. I’ll go with them for the first while and teach English. We’re excited to start a home-base halfway across the world in
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