A couple embracing and kissing on stairs adorned with flower arrangements.

A Met Gala, ‘Camp’ Themed Wedding

Inspired by a Met Gala theme of ‘camp,’ Alex (she/her) & Cassi (she/her) threw the biggest, queerest party to celebrate that they’d actually, secretly, been married for an entire year before the big – gay- day. 

Falling in love, eventually. 

We started as friends back in 2013. We had your typical, early queer little fling. We had a falling out because when you’re 21, you’re sometimes young and stupid and need to grow up. 

After both experiencing long-term relationships that eventually ended, we found our way back to each other on social media, where Cassi told me she’d loved me since the day we met. We both had plans to move to Atlanta at the same time, so naturally, we started dating, lived separately for a year, then moved in together, and got married a year later. 

Deciding to elope, secretly.

In May of 2022, Roe v Wade was on the verge of being overturned. We started getting worried about the future of same-sex marriage. We knew we wanted to get married but just hadn’t rushed any steps yet. 

That month, we married. But, we only told our photographer so that we could have what we’d told everyone was our ‘engagement photos.’

Fast-forward six months, and we planned a proposal in Iceland on a birthday trip with beautiful antique rings. We still hadn’t told anyone that we were legally married. 

Hosting their Met Gala ‘Camp’ Themed Wedding Day

We married nearly a year after our Iceland ‘proposal.’ We knew we wanted to host the biggest, gayest event that anyone had ever been to, and the theme of Met Gala ‘Camp’ was perfect for it. 

And EVERYONE showed out. Anna Wintour would be shaking. 

Nearing the end of the reception, it was time. I got on the microphone and told everyone that they were actually attending our one-year anniversary.

It was so fun, and totally bonkers, to keep the secret from all of our friends and family, but totally worth it for the campiest wedding of a lifetime.

Wedding accessories and stationery laid out, including red sunglasses and studded red shoes.
A woman in a blue suit with a sheer overlay stands smiling behind a veil.
A woman in a black suit laughing joyously as she opens a door.
Two women holding hands, one in a blue suit and the other in a black suit with red shoes.
Close-up of two women gently resting their heads together, one in a black suit and the other in a blue suit.
Two women in formal attire smiling, with one holding a colorful bouquet.
Two women sitting on steps, one in a blue suit and the other in a black suit, both holding cans of beer.
A couple holding cans of beer, standing side by side with tropical plants in the background.
A close-up of a vibrant bouquet with a variety of flowers in multiple colors.
A wedding table detail featuring a floral arrangement, candles, and custom wedding chocolates.
An outdoor wedding reception setup with tables adorned with floral centerpieces.
A group photo of wedding guests in eclectic, flamboyant attire in a monochrome setting.
A close-up of a tender moment between two women, one caressing the other's face.
Wedding guests posed in colorful, camp-themed attire on steps outside a building.
A person with a large floral headpiece greets applauding guests at an outdoor celebration.
A couple standing at an altar made of vibrant flowers, holding hands during their wedding ceremony.
A couple embracing and kissing on stairs adorned with flower arrangements.
Guests cheering as a couple kisses, framed by a floral arch at their wedding ceremony.
A creative image of the two brides looking at one another, there is a kaleidoscope effect around them.
The couple sharing a kiss, one in a blue suit with a veil, the other in a black suit with red lipstick.
The couple standing side by side, one in sunglasses and a black suit, the other in a blue suit with a bouquet.
Two women kneeling on the floor, picking up pieces of a smashed wedding cake.
Two women embracing and laughing, illuminated by a shower of sparkler light.
A black-and-white image of two women dancing joyfully in a wedding celebration.
A close-up of two women's hands, one adorned with a chunky ring, gently touching against a backdrop of suits.
Upper body shot of two people in wedding attire, with one hand on the other's shoulder and ornate necklaces.
A close-up of a person in a blue suit holding a bouquet of pastel flowers, standing in a softly lit room.
Two individuals, one holding a bouquet, stand together in formal wedding attire; one in a blue suit, the other in black.
A person stands with their back turned, showcasing a black suit jacket with vibrant patches and red sunglasses.
A person in a bright pink dress sits beside another person in a light blue suit and high heels on a bed.
An assortment of wedding accessories laid out, including red sunglasses, shoes, jewelry, and a "Save the Date" card.
Two brides, one in lace dress and the other in black, sitting on the floor, eating pie from a toppled pie plate.
The couple in a candid dance, one in a black suit with red shoes, the other in a lace dress, among a crowd of guests.
A decorated wedding table featuring an orange, a floral arrangement, candles, and various small items.
Two brides under a veil, one with a black suit with rainbow and rose patches, and the other in a light blue suit.
A vibrant floral arrangement with an array of colorful flowers against an urban outdoor setting.
The couple sits holding hands on stairs in front of a group of guests, with the brides in blue and black attire.
Two women in wedding attire with one wearing sunglasses holding hands and walking through an interior space.
Detail of two women's feet showing one in a white open-toe high heel and the other in a red studded shoe with socks.

Photography by Our Ampersand Photo

Florist Samantha Warren Designs
Rings Jack Weir & Sons, Olive Avenue Jewelry, Pebble & Polish
Shoes Alexander McQueen, Stuart Weitzman
Stationery Alecia Vera
Suit Designer Hebe Studio, Aggi
Venue Monday Night Brewing

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