ALL LOVE DESERVES TO BE CELEBRATED
Queer wedding stories, planning guides and inclusive vendors
Home to the world’s largest collection of real LGBTQ+ love stories, plus everything you need to plan your own wedding, for LGBTQ+ women and nonbinary humans, wildly in love.
Plus a growing list of vetted, genuinely affirming vendors.
2,000+ real LGBTQ+ stories · Lovers from 50+ countries · Sharing love since 2016
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Get inspired
Real queer weddings, elopements and proposals
Find your people
Inclusive wedding vendors who actually get it
Fresh real stories
Inclusive vendor directory
Find vendors who share your values
Every vendor in our directory is vetted for inclusive practices before they’re listed. Not just LGBTQ+ friendly. Genuinely affirming, from the first email to the last dance.
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Planning essentials.
The guide, the tools and the answers you’ll need first. All free.
The complete guide
How to Plan a Queer Wedding
Eleven steps, from your vision and budget to vendors, family and the legal bits.
Free template
Wedding Budget Allocation Template
See where your money should go before you spend a cent.
Guide
How to Elope in the US as a Queer Couple
The legal steps, the practical ones and what nobody tells you.
Guide
Planning a Wedding as a Trans Bride
Advice for planning a day that feels fully, joyfully yours.
Some of our most read blogs: 26 Lesbian Wedding Ideas Borrowed From Real Queer Weddings · Lesbian Engagement Rings: Who Buys, Who Wears One and What to Choose · Lesbian Proposal Ideas From 30+ Real Queer Couples
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Stories, planning guides and vendor finds. In your inbox, weekly.
Who we are
Made by two lovers who couldn’t find themselves in wedding magazines
Dancing With Her started in 2016, when Arlia and Tara got engaged, went looking for wedding inspiration and found nothing that looked like them. An Instagram account became a blog. In 2017 it became the first wedding magazine of its kind, shipped to more than 40 countries.
Since then we’ve shared over 1,500 LGBTQ+ love stories from couples in 50+ countries, spoken on stages in the US and Hong Kong, landed in the pages of Forbes and become part of the Australian Queer Archives. We still make it from home, on Dja Dja Wurrung Country in Bendigo, Australia.
Honeymoons and growing families
Where to go once the vows are done, and real stories from queer couples starting their families.
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