A Guide to Courthouse Weddings: Everything You Need to Know

We get it – planning a wedding is a big deal. But let’s be real: in times like these, when the political landscape feels shaky and the future uncertain, especially for the LGBTQ+ community, it’s wise to consider the most straightforward ways to protect your partnership. Enter the courthouse wedding.

We don’t write this to scare you; we write this to empower you. Courthouse weddings have long been overlooked as the less glamorous sibling to grand venues and elaborate celebrations. But here’s the truth: they’re resilient, intimate, and, in times of legal uncertainty, a move that ensures your commitment is recognized in the eyes of the law.

So, whether you’re considering a courthouse wedding for its simplicity, its affordability, or just to lock in your love before any political shifts, this guide will walk you through every detail. We’ll cover the basics of what a courthouse wedding entails, the state-by-state nuances of the process, and how to personalize it to make it uniquely yours.

This isn’t just a plan B – it’s a choice, a statement, and for many, the beginning of a beautiful journey that stands strong, no matter what.

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What Is a Courthouse Wedding?

A courthouse wedding, also known as a civil ceremony, is a legally binding marriage ceremony performed by a government official – typically a judge, justice of the peace, or court clerk – in a courthouse or other official government building.

Unlike traditional weddings that come with grand venues, elaborate décor, and lengthy guest lists, courthouse weddings are straightforward, no-frills ceremonies focused on one thing: getting married.

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What to Expect from a Courthouse Wedding

A courthouse wedding is known for being efficient and budget-friendly. Here’s what you can generally expect:

Courthouse weddings require minimal planning
Forget booking caterers, florists, or worrying about seating charts. Courthouse weddings typically involve only a few essential steps: securing a marriage license, scheduling a ceremony, and bringing any required documents or witnesses.
Courthouse Ceremonies are often short and sweet
Most courthouse weddings are concise, often lasting only 10 to 20 minutes. The focus is on the legal declaration, vows, and signing of the marriage certificate. Some officials may allow you to personalize your vows, but there’s usually a standard script for the ceremony.
Courthouse Weddings usually have a small guest list
The space within courthouses is usually limited, so these ceremonies often accommodate only a handful of guests, making them perfect for couples who prefer an intimate gathering.

Some states allow for a larger number of attendees, but it’s best to check your local courthouse’s capacity and policies
Courthouse Marriages are Legal
Because this type of wedding is overseen by a legal official, it meets the necessary criteria for a recognized marriage under state and federal law. This aspect is especially crucial for LGBTQ+ couples who want their union to be unquestionably valid in the eyes of the law.

Understanding the Appeal of Courthouse Weddings

Courthouse elopements are budget-friendly
With an average wedding costing tens of thousands of dollars, the financial appeal of a courthouse wedding is significant. By eliminating venue, catering, and elaborate décor costs, couples can direct their resources toward what truly matters to them, whether it’s a down payment on a home or an unforgettable honeymoon.
Courthouse weddings are low stress
Courthouse weddings strip away the stress of organizing a large-scale event. There’s no need to coordinate vendors, plan entertainment, or deal with the logistics of a guest list. This simplicity is perfect for couples who want to focus solely on their commitment to each other.
Courthouse weddings offer legal security
Especially relevant for LGBTQ+ couples, the legal recognition of a courthouse wedding ensures that your marriage is protected under state and federal law.

This security is invaluable in a time when the political climate may bring uncertainties around the rights of LGBTQ+ couples.

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What a courthouse wedding looks like, varies by state

While the core elements of a courthouse wedding are consistent, individual states have specific rules that may affect how the ceremony is conducted.

Some states may offer more flexibility with personalizing the ceremony, allowing for custom vows or special readings, while others stick strictly to a standardized format. It’s essential to research the policies and practices of your local courthouse or the one in your chosen state to prepare for any unique requirements or processes.

Courthouse weddings offer an efficient, meaningful, and legally secure way to say “I do.” Whether you’re looking for a minimalist approach to marriage or need a straightforward, no-nonsense ceremony due to these political uncertainties, the courthouse option stands as a powerful choice.

With a marriage license, a scheduled appointment, and a handful of supportive witnesses (that you need in some states), you’ll be ready to start your married life with the protection and recognition you deserve.

How to Get Married at the Courthouse: State-by-State Overview

When it comes to tying the knot at a courthouse, the overall process is relatively uniform across the U.S. However, each state – and sometimes individual counties – may have their own requirements and nuances that can impact your planning.

Below, we break down what you need to know state by state, so you can walk into the courthouse prepared and confident.

General Steps for a Courthouse Wedding

Before diving into specifics by state, here’s a quick overview of the general process:

Obtain a Marriage License:
Apply at your local county clerk’s office. Requirements for ID, fees, and waiting periods vary by state.
Schedule Your Ceremony:
Contact the courthouse to schedule an appointment. Some states accept walk-ins, but many require appointments due to high demand.
Bring Witnesses:
Confirm if witnesses are required in your state and, if so, how many. Witnesses typically must be at least 18 years old.
Complete the Ceremony:
A judge, justice of the peace, or authorized official will perform the marriage ceremony.
Receive Your Marriage Certificate:
After the ceremony, the officiant will file your marriage license with the county. You can then request certified copies.

Now, let’s dive into what to expect for your courthouse wedding in each state:

State-by-State Courthouse Wedding Details

Alabama

Requirements: No residency requirement; valid photo ID required.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $70-$100, depending on the county.
Special Notes: Alabama transitioned to a marriage certificate system. Couples must complete and file this certificate, which serves as the official record of the marriage.

Alaska

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Generally $60.
Special Notes: Seasonal office hours may vary due to weather, so check with the local courthouse.

Arizona

Requirements: No residency requirement; valid photo ID required.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses needed.
Fees: $83-$86, varying by county.
Special Notes: Some counties allow online marriage license applications but require in-person pickup.

Arkansas

Requirements: Applicants must be at least 18; valid photo ID required.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically around $60.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses must be returned to the issuing office for filing within 60 days.

California

Requirements: No residency requirement; valid photo ID required.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: One witness required; up to two can sign.
Fees: $35-$100, depending on the county.
Special Notes: Confidential marriage licenses are available, keeping the record private.

Colorado

Requirements: Photo ID required; self-solemnization is allowed (no officiant needed).
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required but optional.
Fees: Typically $30.
Special Notes: Colorado allows couples to marry themselves without an officiant or witnesses.

Connecticut

Requirements: No residency requirement; valid photo ID required.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Around $50.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid only in the town where it was issued, so apply in the town where you’ll marry.

Delaware

Requirements: Must apply in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: 24 hours for residents and non-residents.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: $50 for residents, $120 for non-residents.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for 30 days and must be used within that period.

Florida

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; non-residents have no waiting period, but residents must wait three days unless they complete a state-approved premarital course.
Waiting Period: Three days for residents; none for non-residents.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: $93.50; reduced to $61 with a completed premarital course.
Special Notes: Florida offers a fee reduction for couples who complete a premarital course.

Georgia

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; no residency requirement if marrying in the county where the license is issued.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $56; can be reduced with a premarital education certificate.
Special Notes: The cost of the license can be reduced if a state-approved premarital education program is completed.

Hawaii

Requirements: Must appear in person or apply online with valid photo ID and proof of age.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: $65 online application fee.
Special Notes: Hawaii allows online applications for a marriage license, making it easier for destination weddings. The license must be picked up in person before the ceremony.

Idaho

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; applicants must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $30-$60, depending on the county.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses do not expire once issued.

Illinois

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: One day.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Varies by county, typically around $60.
Special Notes: The license is only valid in the county where it was issued, so make sure to use it in that specific county.

Indiana

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; residency is needed if applying in your home county, but non-residents can marry if applying in the county where the marriage takes place.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: $18 for residents, $60 for non-residents.
Special Notes: If neither partner is an Indiana resident, the license must be obtained in the county where the ceremony will be held.

Iowa

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: One witness required to sign the marriage license.
Fees: Typically $35.
Special Notes: The waiting period can be waived by a judge for an additional fee if urgent.

Kansas

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Approximately $85-$90.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for six months from the date of issuance.

Kentucky

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Generally around $35-$50, depending on the county.
Special Notes: The license must be used within 30 days from the date of issuance.

Louisiana

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: 24 hours.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Varies by parish, typically $27-$50.
Special Notes: The 24-hour waiting period may be waived for out-of-state couples under specific circumstances.

Maine

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID; no residency requirement.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically around $40-$60.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for 90 days and can only be used in Maine.

Maryland

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must apply in person.
Waiting Period: 48 hours.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Varies by county, generally around $35-$85.
Special Notes: Non-residents may be able to apply by mail in some counties. The license is valid only in the county where it was issued.

Massachusetts

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically around $50.
Special Notes: The three-day waiting period can be waived by a court order for an additional fee. The license is valid for 60 days.

Michigan

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; residents must apply in their home county, while non-residents can apply in any county where the wedding will take place.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: $20 for residents, $30 for non-residents.
Special Notes: The waiting period can be waived for a fee, and the license is valid for 33 days.

Minnesota

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: Five days.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $115; reduced to $40 with proof of premarital counseling.
Special Notes: The waiting period can be waived by a court order. The license is valid for six months.

Mississippi

Requirements: Valid photo ID and proof of age required; applicants must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $20-$40.
Special Notes: The license does not have an expiration date once issued.

Missouri

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically around $50.
Special Notes: The license is valid for 30 days and must be used in Missouri.

Montana

Requirements: Must appear in person with valid photo ID and proof of age.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically $53.
Special Notes: The license is valid for 180 days.

Nebraska

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $25.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for one year from the date of issuance.

Nevada

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: One witness required.
Fees: Typically around $77.
Special Notes: Nevada is a popular destination for quick weddings, and many courthouses are prepared for same-day licensing and ceremonies.

New Hampshire

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically $50.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for 90 days and can only be used within the state.

New Jersey

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: 72 hours.
Witnesses: One witness required.
Fees: Typically $28.
Special Notes: The license is valid for six months. The 72-hour waiting period can be waived by a court order in emergency situations.

New Mexico

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically around $25.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses do not expire once issued.

New York

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: 24 hours.
Witnesses: Not required, but some courthouses may suggest bringing one.
Fees: $35-$40, depending on the location.
Special Notes: The 24-hour waiting period can be waived by a judge for urgent cases. The license is valid for 60 days, except for active military members (180 days).

North Carolina

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically around $60.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 60 days and must be used within that period.

North Dakota

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically around $65.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for 60 days.

Ohio

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; residents must apply in their home county, while non-residents must apply in the county where the wedding will be held.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Varies by county, generally $40-$75.
Special Notes: Licenses are valid for 60 days from issuance.

Oklahoma

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $50; reduced to $5 with a premarital counseling certificate.
Special Notes: The license is valid for 10 days, and a premarital counseling certificate significantly reduces the fee.

Oregon

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $50-$60.
Special Notes: The three-day waiting period can be waived for an additional fee. The marriage license is valid for 60 days.

Pennsylvania

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required for self-uniting licenses; not always required for other licenses.
Fees: Varies by county, typically $45-$90.
Special Notes: Pennsylvania offers a unique self-uniting license that allows couples to marry without an officiant. The license is valid for 60 days.

Rhode Island

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; residency may affect the application process.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically around $24.
Special Notes: Non-residents must apply for the license in the town where the ceremony will be performed. The license is valid for 90 days.

South Carolina

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: 24 hours.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Varies by county, typically $30-$70.
Special Notes: The license does not have an expiration date once issued.

South Dakota

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically around $40.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 20 days from the date of issuance.

Tennessee

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Approximately $97.50; reduced to $37.50 with completion of a premarital preparation course.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for 30 days.

Texas

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: 72 hours, which can be waived under certain conditions.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Approximately $60-$85, varying by county; reduced by $60 upon completion of a premarital education course.
Special Notes: The marriage license is valid for 90 days.

Utah

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically around $40-$50.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 30 days.

Vermont

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Approximately $60.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 60 days.

Virginia

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $30.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 60 days.

Washington

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: Three days.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Approximately $69.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 60 days.

West Virginia

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Not required.
Fees: Typically $56.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 60 days.

Wisconsin

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: Six days, which can be waived for a fee.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Approximately $110.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for 30 days.

Wyoming

Requirements: Valid photo ID required; must appear in person.
Waiting Period: None.
Witnesses: Two witnesses required.
Fees: Typically $30.
Special Notes: Marriage licenses are valid for one year.

Each state has its own quirks, so it’s crucial to check the specific county where you plan to wed for exact requirements. Some states may have stricter regulations or unique processes for obtaining a marriage license and scheduling a courthouse wedding.

The Courthouse Wedding Planning Process

Planning a courthouse wedding can be simple, but understanding the specific steps involved ensures that everything runs smoothly. From making an appointment to knowing what to expect during the ceremony, this section covers all the essentials.

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1. How to Make an Appointment for a Courthouse Marriage

Contact the Courthouse: The first step is to reach out to your local courthouse or visit their official website. Many courthouses now require appointments for marriage ceremonies due to high demand or staffing limitations.
Online Scheduling: Some courthouses offer online appointment systems where you can select your preferred date and time.
Phone or In-Person Scheduling: If an online system isn’t available, you may need to call or visit the courthouse to book your ceremony.
Prepare Required Documents: Have your IDs, application forms, and payment ready when making the appointment, as some courthouses may ask for them at the time of booking.

2. What to Expect During a Courthouse Wedding Ceremony

Arrival and Check-In: Arrive at least 15-30 minutes before your scheduled time to check in and ensure everything is in order. Bring your marriage license, valid photo IDs, and any required documents or witnesses.
Pre-Ceremony Details: A courthouse official may review your documents and confirm your ceremony details before proceeding.
Ceremony Setup: Courthouse weddings are usually held in a small room or designated area. The space is simple, and some courthouses may provide a decorated backdrop or an officiant’s podium.
The Ceremony Itself: The officiant will lead you through the legal vows. If allowed by the courthouse, you can exchange personal vows or add a short reading. The ceremony is straightforward, focusing on the essential parts: vows, declaration of marriage, and signing of the marriage license.
Witnesses: If witnesses are required in your state, they will be asked to sign the marriage license at the end of the ceremony.

3. Duration of a Typical Courthouse Wedding

Short and Simple: Courthouse weddings are designed to be brief, typically lasting anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes. This includes the time for the couple to say their vows, sign the marriage license, and complete any necessary paperwork.
Additional Time for Photos: Some couples choose to take photos inside or outside the courthouse. This can add an extra 15-30 minutes, depending on the number of pictures you wish to take and whether the courthouse allows photography.

4. Fees and Associated Costs with Courthouse Weddings

Marriage License Fees: The cost of obtaining a marriage license varies from state to state and can range from $20 to $100. For example, in Florida, the fee is around $93.50 but can be reduced to $61 with a completed premarital course. In California, fees range from $35 to $100, depending on the county.
Ceremony Fees: Some courthouses may charge a separate fee for the wedding ceremony itself. This cost typically ranges from $25 to $50, depending on the location.
Other Costs:
- Certified Copies of the Marriage Certificate: You will need to request certified copies for official use, such as name changes or updating legal documents. This usually costs $10 to $25 per copy.
- Witness Fees: In cases where courthouses provide witnesses, there may be an additional fee.
- Waiver Fees: If your state has a waiting period and you wish to waive it, there may be an extra fee involved. For example, in Michigan, this fee can vary by county.

**A City Hall Wedding is Oslo**
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Do You Need a Witness for a Courthouse Wedding?

Whether you need a witness for your courthouse wedding depends on the state. Many states do require witnesses, usually one or two, who must be at least 18 years old. States like Arizona, Connecticut, and Texas typically don’t require witnesses, while states like California, New York, and North Carolina do.

Check with your local courthouse to confirm specific requirements, as they can vary even within a state.

Who Marries You at a Courthouse Wedding?

Courthouse weddings are conducted by authorized officials, which can include a judge, a justice of the peace, a magistrate, or a court clerk, depending on the location. When scheduling your wedding, the courthouse staff will let you know who will officiate your ceremony.

Some courthouses allow couples to request a specific officiant if one is available, while others will assign an officiant based on availability.

What Documents Do You Need to Bring?

Generally, you will need a valid government-issued photo ID (such as a driver’s license or passport). Some states may require additional documents, such as a divorce decree or death certificate if either party was previously married.

It’s best to check with the specific courthouse where you’ll be marrying to know exactly what documents are required.

Can You Customize Your Courthouse Wedding?

Yes, to an extent. While courthouse weddings are more minimal than traditional ceremonies, many courthouses allow couples to exchange personal vows or include small touches like music or readings.

Check with the courthouse in advance to see what options are available and permissible.

Is There a Dress Code for a Courthouse Wedding?

While there’s no formal dress code for courthouse weddings, most couples choose attire that reflects the significance of the occasion. Whether you go for traditional wedding wear, business casual, or something more unique, it’s completely up to you.

Just be sure that your attire aligns with the rules of the courthouse (e.g., avoiding anything overly casual or inappropriate).

How Much Does a Courthouse Wedding Cost?

The cost of a courthouse wedding varies by state and county but typically ranges from $20 to $100 for the marriage license. Some courthouses may charge an additional fee for the ceremony itself. Be sure to check the specific fees in your local jurisdiction.

How Do You Schedule a Courthouse Wedding?

Scheduling a courthouse wedding typically involves contacting the courthouse or visiting their website to set an appointment. Some courthouses offer walk-in services, but most now require appointments due to demand.

Be sure to schedule your ceremony well in advance, especially if you plan to marry during peak wedding seasons.

What Happens After the Ceremony?

Once the ceremony is complete, the officiant will sign your marriage license and submit it to the appropriate county office for filing. You will need to request certified copies of the marriage certificate for your personal records and legal use, such as changing your name or updating legal documents.

An Intimate San Francisco City Hall Elopement
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Personalizing Your Courthouse Wedding

Courthouse weddings are known for being straightforward, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be special and unique. With a little creativity and thoughtful planning, you can personalize your courthouse wedding to reflect your relationship and make the day memorable.

Choosing Unique Vows for your Courthouse Marriage

Custom Vows: While most courthouse weddings follow a standard script, many courthouses allow couples to say personal vows. Check with the officiant or the courthouse in advance to confirm if this is an option.
Tips for Writing Personal Vows: Keep them concise, heartfelt, and authentic. Reflect on shared experiences, what you love about your partner, and your hopes for the future. Remember, you may have a limited time for vows, so make them impactful.

Adding Personal Touches to your courthouse wedding

Flowers and Bouquets: Bring your own bouquet or floral arrangement to add a pop of color and personality. Many couples choose simple yet elegant flowers that complement their attire.
Dress and Attire: Choose wedding attire that matches your style. Whether you prefer a traditional white dress, a sleek suit, or something casual, wear what makes you feel confident and happy.

Remember, there are no rules when it comes to courthouse wedding fashion.
Small Decorations: Depending on the courthouse’s regulations, consider adding small decorations, like a personalized sign or a simple aisle runner. Be sure to ask in advance if this is allowed.

Incorporating Family and Friends into your courthouse wedding

Witnesses: If your state requires witnesses, make it special by inviting close friends or family members. Even if not required, you can choose to have loved ones present to share in the moment.
Group Photos: Plan to take group photos before or after the ceremony. Many couples pose for pictures on courthouse steps or in nearby parks for a blend of candid and posed shots.
Live Streaming: For loved ones who can’t attend, consider live streaming your ceremony via a platform like Zoom or social media. This way, friends and family from afar can still witness your special day.

Music and Readings at your courthouse wedding

Background Music: Check with the courthouse to see if you can play a song or two during your ceremony. Bringing a small portable speaker can create a special ambiance without being disruptive.
Readings: Some courthouses may allow a brief reading from a friend or family member. Whether it’s a poem, a religious passage, or a meaningful quote, this can add depth to your ceremony.

Post Courthouse Ceremony Celebrations

Mini Receptions: While a large reception may not fit with the courthouse theme, a mini reception or gathering afterward can be a great way to celebrate. Reserve a private room at a favorite restaurant or host a backyard gathering to toast your marriage.
Cake Cutting: Bring a small cake or cupcakes to share with witnesses and guests after the ceremony. It’s a simple way to include a traditional wedding element without planning a large reception.
Toast and First Dance: If you’re having a small gathering, include a toast or a first dance with your partner. It’s a heartfelt way to create special memories, even without a formal reception.

Hiring a Photographer for your Courthouse Elopement

Hire a Photographer: Consider hiring a professional photographer who specializes in courthouse weddings or elopements. They can capture candid moments and beautiful posed shots before, during, and after the ceremony.
DIY Photos: If hiring a photographer isn’t an option, ask a friend with a good camera to capture key moments. Courthouse settings can create charming and authentic photos, especially on steps or in surrounding cityscapes.

Incorporating Cultural or Religious Traditions into your courthouse Elopement

Simple Rituals: If your courthouse allows, incorporate a small cultural or religious element, such as a unity candle, handfasting, or exchanging traditional blessings.
Personal Tokens: Wear or carry items that have cultural or personal significance, such as heirloom jewelry or special fabrics.

Personalizing your courthouse wedding doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive. With thoughtful touches, creative additions, and a focus on what truly matters, your day can feel as special as any grand celebration.

Courthouse weddings are about the commitment you’re making to each other, and adding personal elements ensures that commitment shines through.

**A City Hall Elopement in Copenhagen**
**Photography by** Bigwig Photography

Courthouse Wedding Packages and Options

While courthouse weddings are known for their simplicity, many states and counties offer packages and options to enhance your special day. From streamlined services that handle everything for you to additional perks that can make your courthouse ceremony more memorable, here’s what you need to know about available courthouse wedding packages and options.

Courthouse Wedding Packages

Basic Packages: Some courthouses offer basic packages that include the marriage license, a brief ceremony conducted by an officiant, and sometimes a witness provided by the court. These packages are perfect for couples looking for a no-fuss, efficient wedding day.
Upgraded Packages: In larger cities or more popular courthouses, you might find upgraded packages that include options like photography, floral arrangements, or a small reception space. These packages can simplify planning by bundling services.
Destination Courthouse Packages: In some states with popular courthouse wedding locations (e.g., Nevada, California), destination packages might be available that offer same-day licensing, officiants, and themed ceremony settings.

Finding a Courthouse Wedding Photographer

In-House Photography: Some courthouses partner with local photographers to offer in-house photography services. These professionals know the best angles and lighting to make your ceremony look beautiful.
Photo Packages: Depending on the courthouse, you might be able to purchase a photo package that includes a set number of edited digital photos or prints. This option is ideal for couples who want professional-quality photos without having to search for a separate photographer
Hire a Photographer: Find a photographer who can capture your commitment – you’ll find a bunch of LBGTQ+ inclusive wedding and elopement photographers in our online directory.

Floral and Decor Options for Your Courthouse Elopement

Simple Floral Arrangements: Some courthouses provide basic floral arrangements as part of a package or for an additional fee. These can include a small bouquet, boutonniere, or decorative flowers in the ceremony room.
Decor Rentals: A few courthouses or nearby vendors offer decor rentals for courthouse ceremonies. Items can include aisle runners, small arches, or even personalized signs. Be sure to check with the courthouse to confirm if they allow outside decor.

Hiring a Witness for your Courthouse Wedding

Witness for Hire: If you don’t have a witness, some courthouses or local services offer a “witness for hire” option. This can be helpful for couples planning a private ceremony or those who are eloping.
Courthouse-Provided Witnesses: In some states, the courthouse itself can provide a witness at no extra cost or for a small fee. Check with your specific courthouse for details.

Courthouse wedding packages and options vary widely by location, but there are often ways to enhance your special day with added touches. From basic services to more elaborate packages that include photography or decor, these options help tailor the experience to your liking. Whether you’re looking for a simple exchange of vows or a slightly more personalized ceremony, exploring your courthouse’s offerings can make all the difference.

Planning Tips for Your Courthouse Wedding

Courthouse weddings offer a straightforward, budget-friendly alternative to traditional ceremonies, but that doesn’t mean planning should be taken lightly. To ensure your courthouse wedding goes smoothly and is as memorable as you envision, follow these essential planning tips.

1. Plan Ahead and Book Early

Check Availability: Courthouses can get busy, especially during peak wedding seasons (spring and summer). Call or visit your local courthouse’s website to check their availability and make your appointment as early as possible.
Confirm Requirements: Each courthouse may have different requirements for IDs, documents, and other paperwork. Double-check the specific requirements for the location where you plan to marry.

2. Choose Your Date and Time Wisely

Off-Peak Hours: If you want a quieter, more intimate setting, try scheduling your ceremony during off-peak times, such as midweek or in the early morning.
Consider Weather and Season: While the ceremony is indoors, photos and any post-ceremony celebrations might be impacted by weather. Plan your date and time with weather and light conditions in mind if you’re aiming for outdoor photos.

3. Budget for the Basics and Extras

Plan Your Fees: Courthouse wedding fees are generally affordable but vary by location. Make sure to budget for the marriage license, ceremony fees, and any extra services like witness fees or certified copies of the marriage certificate.
Allocate for Add-Ons: If you’re considering photography, flowers, or attire, factor those costs into your budget. Even a courthouse wedding can have a few splurges that add up quickly.

4. Prepare Your Documents

Bring Valid ID: Always bring government-issued photo IDs, like driver’s licenses or passports.
Double-Check Paperwork: Ensure you have all required paperwork, such as your marriage license and any additional documents like proof of divorce if applicable.
Certified Copies: Plan to order certified copies of your marriage certificate after the ceremony for legal name changes and other post-marriage tasks.

5. Dress for the Occasion

Choose Attire That Reflects You: Your wedding outfit should feel special, even if you’re keeping it simple. Whether it’s a chic dress, a tailored suit, or coordinated casual wear, make sure you’re comfortable and happy with your choice.
Mind Courthouse Etiquette: Some courthouses may have guidelines on appropriate dress, so avoid anything too casual or revealing.

6. Bring the Right People

Limit Your Guest List: Courthouse weddings typically have limited space, so keep your guest list small and personal. Check with the courthouse for any restrictions on the number of guests allowed.
Witnesses: Ensure that your chosen witnesses meet the age requirement (usually 18 or older) and are available for the ceremony. If needed, arrange for a court-provided witness or hire one.

7. Plan for Photos

Scout Photo Locations: Many courthouses have photogenic spots like grand staircases, historic facades, or nearby parks. Visit in advance or look up photos to plan where you’d like to take pictures.
Coordinate with Your Photographer: If you’re hiring a photographer, let them know about any specific shots you want. Ensure the courthouse allows photography and clarify any rules or restrictions.
DIY Photos: If hiring a photographer isn’t an option, enlist a friend or family member with a good camera to capture the moment.

8. Make Your Exit Special

Plan a Mini Celebration: Bring confetti, bubbles, or flower petals (where permitted) for a fun post-ceremony exit. This can create beautiful photos and a special memory for you and your guests.
Transportation: Arrange for a car or ride that feels special, whether it’s your own decorated car or a rented vehicle. This can make your courthouse wedding feel more festive.

9. Create a Post-Ceremony Plan

Toast and Meal: After the ceremony, plan for a celebratory toast or meal with your guests. This could be at a restaurant, a local café, or even a home gathering.
Keep It Simple: Courthouse weddings are known for their simplicity, so don’t stress about planning an elaborate event afterward. A relaxed brunch or dinner with loved ones can be just as memorable.

10. Prepare for the Unexpected

Check for Changes: Ensure that no changes have occurred to your scheduled time or courthouse policies by confirming with the courthouse a day or two before the wedding.
Have a Backup Plan: For outdoor photos or post-ceremony celebrations, have a backup plan in case of inclement weather.

Planning a courthouse wedding may be simpler than organizing a traditional event, but it still benefits from thoughtful preparation. By booking early, preparing your documents, and adding personal touches, you can make the day as special and memorable as any larger wedding.

Making Your Courthouse Wedding Unforgettable

A courthouse wedding doesn’t have to be ordinary. With a few thoughtful touches, you can make your ceremony feel personal, heartfelt, and unique. Here’s how to add those special elements that transform your day from simple to truly memorable.

1. Add Personal Touches to the Ceremony

Customized Vows: If the courthouse allows, take the opportunity to write your own vows. This adds a deeply personal element to your ceremony and allows you to express your love and commitment in your own words.
Incorporate a Reading: Ask a close friend or family member to read a favorite poem, quote, or passage that resonates with you and your partner.
Include Small Rituals: Simple traditions like a handfasting cord or a unity candle (where permitted) can add depth and meaning to your ceremony.

2. Bring Personalized Accessories

Bouquet and Boutonniere: Bring your own fresh or faux floral arrangements to elevate your look and add a splash of color.
Special Rings: If your budget allows, consider personalizing your rings with engravings, such as a meaningful date or phrase.
Sentimental Keepsakes: Carry or wear items with sentimental value, like a piece of heirloom jewelry or a custom pin that symbolizes your relationship.

3. Choose the Right Attire

Wear What Reflects You: Your outfit sets the tone for your day, so whether you opt for a traditional wedding dress, a sleek suit, or something more casual and quirky, choose attire that makes you feel your best.
Coordinate with Your Partner: Choose complementary outfits to create a cohesive look in photos and during the ceremony.
Add Accessories: Incorporate special touches like a custom veil, bowtie, or shoes with unique details that express your personality.

4. Create a Memorable Entrance and Exit

Music: If permitted, bring a small speaker to play a song for your entrance or exit. This can create a moment of excitement and celebration.
Decorative Touches: If allowed, add simple decorations like a personalized welcome sign or a small garland on chairs to enhance the atmosphere.
Celebratory Exit: Plan a fun exit from the courthouse with bubbles, confetti, or flower petals (ensure they are allowed) for a joyful and photogenic moment.

5. Capture the Moment with Photos and Videos

Hire a Photographer: If budget allows, hire a professional photographer or videographer to capture candid moments and formal portraits.
Plan Specific Shots: Create a list of must-have photos, such as exchanging rings, the first kiss, and group shots with any guests or witnesses.

6. Plan a Post-Ceremony Celebration

Toast with Loved Ones: Bring champagne or sparkling cider to share a toast on the courthouse steps or at a nearby spot after the ceremony.
Cake Cutting: Bring a small wedding cake or cupcakes to share with guests and have a mini cake-cutting moment.
Lunch or Dinner: Reserve a table at a restaurant or organize a small gathering at home to celebrate with close friends and family.

7. Add Personal Details and Keepsakes

Commemorative Items: Create a custom wedding certificate holder or guestbook that guests can sign with their well-wishes.
Memory Box: Bring a memory box to collect small items from the day, such as a copy of the ceremony script or a piece of your bouquet.
Photo Album: Plan to create a photo album or scrapbook of your courthouse wedding to relive the memories for years to come.

8. Incorporate Your Culture and Traditions

Small Cultural Touches: Include elements that celebrate your heritage, like wearing traditional attire or incorporating a brief ceremony practice.
Blessings and Prayers: If religion is important to you, ask for a short prayer or blessing before or after the ceremony, if allowed by the courthouse.

9. Make It Meaningful with a Personal Note

Exchange Letters: Write a letter to your partner to read before the ceremony or right after. This can be a touching way to share personal thoughts and emotions.
Dedicate Your Day: Dedicate your wedding day to someone special by carrying or displaying a small memento of theirs.

Your courthouse wedding is more than just a legal formality – it’s the beginning of your married life together. With these personal touches and thoughtful additions, you can create a ceremony that feels uniquely yours. Whether you opt for meaningful vows, personalized decor, or a small post-ceremony gathering, making the day memorable is all about what feels right for you and your partner.

Common Questions About Courthouse Weddings Answered

Even after extensive planning, couples often have last-minute questions about their courthouse wedding. Here, we address some common concerns to ensure your special day goes as smoothly as possible.

What Documents Should We Bring to the Courthouse for our Courthouse Elopement?

Bring valid government-issued photo IDs (e.g., driver’s licenses, passports) and your marriage license. If either party was previously married, you may need proof of divorce or a death certificate. Always check with your specific courthouse for any additional required documents.

Do We Need to Arrive Early for our Courthouse Wedding?

Yes, arriving at least 15-30 minutes early is recommended. This allows time for check-in, document review, and any unforeseen delays. It also gives you a moment to relax and compose yourself before the ceremony begins.

Can We Bring Guests to our Courthouse Wedding?

Most courthouses allow a limited number of guests due to space constraints. Check with your courthouse ahead of time to find out the maximum number of attendees permitted. If guest numbers are limited, consider live streaming your ceremony for friends and family who can’t attend in person.

How Long Will the Courthouse Ceremony Last?

Courthouse weddings are typically brief, lasting between 10 to 30 minutes. The exact duration depends on whether you add personal vows or readings. Plan accordingly for any additional time needed for photos or post-ceremony celebrations.

Is Photography Allowed at a Courthouse Wedding?

Many courthouses allow photography, but some may have restrictions on flash or where photos can be taken. Confirm these details in advance to ensure your photographer can capture key moments. If you’re relying on a friend for photos, make sure they understand the rules as well.

Can We Personalize Our Ceremony at a Courthouse Wedding?

Customization options vary by courthouse. While some locations may allow you to include personal vows, music, or small readings, others may stick to a strict format. It’s important to discuss any personalization requests with the courthouse staff when you schedule your wedding.

Do We Need Witnesses for a Courthouse Marriage, and How Many?

Witness requirements vary by state. Some states require one or two witnesses, while others do not require any at all. If your courthouse provides witnesses or if you need to arrange for your own, be sure they meet the minimum age requirement (usually 18 or older).

Who Will Officiate Our Courthouse Wedding?

Courthouse weddings are typically officiated by a judge, justice of the peace, or another authorized official. You usually cannot choose your officiant, but you can inquire about who will be performing the ceremony when you book.

How Much Does a Courthouse Wedding Cost?

The cost can vary depending on the state and county. Marriage license fees generally range from $20 to $100, and some courthouses may charge additional fees for the ceremony itself. Be prepared to pay for certified copies of the marriage certificate, which are often priced between $10 to $25 each.

How Do We Get Our Marriage Certificate after a Courthouse Wedding?

After the ceremony, the officiant will file your marriage license with the appropriate county office. You’ll need to request certified copies of your marriage certificate for legal and personal use, such as changing your name or updating documents. Processing times can vary, so check with your courthouse to know when to expect your copies.

What Should We Wear to a Courthouse Wedding?

There’s no strict dress code for a courthouse wedding, but most couples opt for attire that’s semi-formal to formal. Whether you choose a classic wedding dress, a tailored suit, or coordinated casual wear, make sure you’re comfortable and that your attire aligns with any guidelines set by the courthouse.

What Happens After a Courthouse Ceremony?

Once the ceremony is complete, you can take photos, share a celebratory toast, or head to a small reception or meal with loved ones. Some couples choose to spend the rest of the day celebrating privately or enjoying a mini-honeymoon.

Can We Plan a Reception After a Courthouse Elopement?

Absolutely. Many couples opt for a courthouse wedding followed by a larger reception at a later date. This allows you to have a simple, immediate ceremony with close friends and family and then celebrate with more guests when you’re ready.

Are Courthouse Weddings Legally Binding?

Yes, courthouse weddings are legally binding and recognized by all states. Once the marriage license is properly filed and the ceremony is conducted by an authorized official, your marriage is legally valid.

Do We Need to Bring Anything for the Courthouse Wedding Ceremony (e.g., rings)?

While exchanging rings is traditional, it’s not required for a courthouse wedding. If you plan to include a ring exchange, make sure to bring your rings and decide whether you’ll be saying personalized vows or using standard ones provided by the officiant.

Courthouse weddings may be simple, but they come with their own set of details that require attention. By addressing these common questions, you can walk into your courthouse wedding confident and prepared.

Whether you’re planning a small ceremony with just the two of you or a celebration with close family and friends, knowing what to expect ensures that your special day is as smooth and joyful as possible.

What to Do After Your Courthouse Wedding

Once you’ve said “I do” and shared that first kiss as a married couple, there are still a few steps to take to transition smoothly into married life. Here’s a guide on what to do after your courthouse wedding to ensure your marriage is legally recognized and celebrated properly.

Obtain Certified Copies of Your Marriage Certificate

Request Certified Copies: Visit or contact the office where your marriage license was filed to request certified copies of your marriage certificate. These copies are essential for updating your legal documents, changing your name, and proving your marriage for various purposes.
Plan for Processing Time: Processing times for obtaining certified copies can vary, from a few days to a few weeks. Check with the courthouse or county clerk’s office for their specific timelines.

Update Your Name (If Applicable)

Social Security Card: If you’re changing your name, your first step is to update your Social Security card. Complete the SS-5 form and visit your local Social Security office with your certified marriage certificate and a valid ID.
Driver’s License and State ID: Next, visit your state’s Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV) to update your driver’s license or state ID. Bring your certified marriage certificate and any other required documents.
Passport: To change your name on your passport, complete the appropriate passport renewal or update form and submit it with your marriage certificate and current passport.
Other Documents: Don’t forget to update your name on other documents like voter registration, bank accounts, insurance policies, and utility bills.

Notify Important Contacts

Employers and HR Departments: Notify your employer of your name change and update your payroll and insurance information as needed.
Financial Institutions: Update your name and marital status with your bank, credit card companies, and any other financial institutions.
Healthcare Providers: Ensure your name is updated with your doctor, dentist, and any other medical professionals.
Insurance Policies: Contact your insurance companies (health, car, home, life) to update your marital status and any name changes. This may also be a good time to review your policies and beneficiaries.

Celebrate Your Marriage

Plan a Post-Ceremony Celebration: If you didn’t host a reception after your courthouse wedding, consider planning a post-wedding celebration with family and friends. This could be a small dinner, a backyard party, or a formal event at a later date.
Take a Mini-Moon or Honeymoon: Whether it’s a weekend getaway or a longer vacation, plan some time to relax and celebrate your marriage. Even a short trip can create lasting memories and help you start married life on a joyful note.
Create a Photo Album: Collect and organize photos from your courthouse wedding and any celebrations that followed. Create a digital or physical album to remember the day and share with loved ones.

Share the News

Announce Your Marriage: Share your courthouse wedding announcement in local newspapers or on social media. Include a favorite photo and a brief message about your special day.
Thank You Notes: If guests attended your courthouse wedding or if you received gifts, make sure to send thank you notes expressing your gratitude.

Reflect and Plan for the Future

Discuss Joint Goals: Take some time to talk with your partner about your goals for the future. This could include financial planning, career ambitions, travel, or family plans.
Update Legal Documents: Ensure that your will, power of attorney, and other important legal documents are updated to reflect your new marital status and any name changes.
Check Benefits and Taxes: Review your new benefits as a married couple, such as health insurance and tax filing options. You may need to update your tax status and plan accordingly for the next tax season.

Your courthouse wedding is more than just a formality – it’s the beginning of an exciting and meaningful chapter in your life. By following these post-wedding steps, you can ensure that your marriage is legally recognized and celebrated in a way that suits you both. Whether you choose to keep things low-key or plan a grand celebration later, what matters most is cherishing your love and partnership.

For LGBTQ+ couples, a courthouse wedding can hold deeper significance, especially in a political climate where rights and protections can sometimes feel uncertain. Choosing to marry at a courthouse is not only a declaration of love but also a proactive step to secure legal recognition and safeguard your relationship. In a world where societal and political shifts can create anxiety, a courthouse wedding is a powerful act of resilience and affirmation, ensuring that your commitment is protected and celebrated regardless of external circumstances.

Whether you’re planning a simple day filled with just the two of you or a gathering with close friends and family, your courthouse wedding can be as heartfelt and joyful as any traditional ceremony.

Remember to embrace this moment, appreciate the love you share, and celebrate the start of this new chapter with pride and confidence.