Inclusive vendor directory

LGBTQ+ Affirming Wedding Vendors in the USA

Photographers, planners, venues and officiants across the US, from Brooklyn breweries to sunrise in Joshua Tree. Every vendor here is vetted to be genuinely affirming before they’re listed.

Two lovers eloping among the Joshua trees in the California desert
From An Intimate Elopement at Joshua Tree.

The USA at a glance

Marriage equality, coast to coastLegal in all 50 states since 2015, and protected by federal law since 2022.

Licenses are state by stateFees, waiting periods and witness rules change at the state line.

Some states skip the officiantColorado is one of a handful where you can marry yourselves.

You can even marry onlineUtah County issues licenses and holds ceremonies over video.

Vetted vendors serving the USA

State
Type of vendor
  • An LGBTQ couple walking through a desert landscape with Joshua trees, one in a sparkling blue dress and the other wearing a black jacket and white hat.
    • Palm Springs, California
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    • USA

    Jenn & Pawel Photography

    A husband and wife creative team who capture incredible real moments, of real people on their wedding or elopement day in Palm Springs
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    • Rhode Island, New England
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    • USA

    Rhode Tripper Photography

    Hey there! We’re Meaghan and Evan—best friends, partners in life, dog parents, and the creative duo behind RTP. We believe your wedding photography experience should be fun, stress-free, and 100% affirming of your identities. No stiff poses, no endless photo…
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    • Albury Wodonga, Victoria
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    • Australia

    Ellen May Photography

    I’m a light & airy, candid photographer based in Albury Wodonga but travels anywhere for a good dance floor! I absolutely adore photographing loved-up humans in all their beautiful forms. I’m here for the big laughs, the soft glances, the…
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    • Canada
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    • Victoria, British Columbia

    Fêtes by Linda

    Fêtes by Linda is a Victoria-based wedding and event planning studio for couples who want their wedding to feel joyful, intentional, and unapologetically them.
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    • Australia
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    • Melbourne, Victoria

    Elise Mezner Photography

    I’m Elise. Welcome to Elise Mezner Photography. I’m a mum, photographer and teacher. I am passionate about sustainability and want to help you to not only create a wedding that fills your heart with joy but also looks after the…
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    • Around the World
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    • Australia
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    • Melbourne, Victoria

    Prince Hotel

    One of Melbourne’s best-known event spaces, Prince Deck is a favourite for a reason. We’re talking floor-to-ceiling windows and doors opening out onto a sweeping timber deck. And the views? To die for. Picture your next event with a glittering,…
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    • Australia
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    • Sydney, New South Wales

    Moments Photography & Film

    We’re Shyani and Simon, the duo behind Moments Photography & Film, based in Sydney and travelling across New South Wales and beyond for weddings.
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  • Two women in wedding attire, with one resting her head on the other's shoulder, smiling in a vineyard.
    • Australia
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    • Melbourne, Victoria

    Emily Howlett Photography

    With a ‘storytelling’ approach to photography, Emily’s work is warm, colourful, and relaxed, much like her personality.
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  • Two polished wedding bands, one with a textured surface and the other adorned with diamonds.
    • Around the World
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    • Australia
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    • Melbourne, Victoria

    Eli Speaks Jewellery

    Often Art Deco-inspired, Eli Speaks custom designs and creates engagement and wedding jewellery from their Melbourne studio.
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    • Australia
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    • Melbourne, Victoria

    A Tactile Perception

    I’m Natalie and I create vibrant and intriguing designs to inject colour and personality into your wedding stationery. I absolutely love getting to know you and what you want your invitations to convey so that I can use my creativity…
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  • Two brides in elegant attire share a moment of closeness with an urban skyline in the background.
    • Australia
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    • Melbourne, Victoria

    Kyra Boyer Photography

    Kyra captures your wedding’s vibrant moments in Melbourne and beyond in joyful, candid photography for colorful and relaxed couples.
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    • Canada
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    • Kimberley, Ontario

    Frances Beatty Photography

    I’m Frances. An Ontario-based wedding photographer drawn to people who care more about meaning than spectacle. I approach weddings as experiences, not productions… moments that deserve to be felt fully, not staged or performed.
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Getting married in the USA

Same-sex couples have been able to marry in every state since the Supreme Court’s 2015 Obergefell decision. The Respect for Marriage Act added federal protection in 2022, and in November 2025 the Supreme Court declined to hear a case that asked it to revisit Obergefell. Your marriage is legal, and it’s recognized in every state.

Licenses are local

You get your license where you’re getting married, not where you live, and each state sets its own rules. Waiting periods, how long a license lasts, whether you need witnesses and who can officiate all vary, so check the county clerk’s website for your wedding location early on.

Officiants, friends and self-solemnizing

Most states need an officiant, and in many of them a friend can get ordained online to do the honors. Some states and cities ask officiants to register first. A few states, Colorado among them, let you skip the officiant and solemnize your marriage yourselves.

Marrying from anywhere

Utah County runs a fully online license and ceremony process, and you don’t need to be in Utah to use it. Our guide to getting legally married online walks you through it.

Questions couples ask

Is same-sex marriage legal in every US state?

Yes. Same-sex couples have been able to marry nationwide since 2015, and the Respect for Marriage Act of 2022 requires every state to recognize marriages legally performed in other states.

Do we need to live in a state to get married there?

Generally, no. You get a license from the place you’re marrying, wherever you live. Check that county’s clerk for its specific rules and timing.

Can a friend officiate our wedding?

In most states, yes, usually after getting ordained online. Some states and cities ask officiants to register before the wedding, so check local rules early.

Can we get married without an officiant?

In a few states, yes. Colorado is the best known. Elsewhere you will need an officiant or a judge.

Can we legally marry online?

Yes. Utah County issues licenses and holds ceremonies fully online. The officiant must be in Utah, but the two of you can be anywhere.

Legal details last checked October 2026. Always confirm with the county clerk where you plan to marry.

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