Inclusive vendor directory
Photographers, planners, venues and officiants across the US, from Brooklyn breweries to sunrise in Joshua Tree. Every vendor here is vetted to be genuinely affirming before they’re listed.
Marriage equality, coast to coastLegal in all 50 states since 2015, and protected by federal law since 2022.
Licenses are state by stateFees, waiting periods and witness rules change at the state line.
Some states skip the officiantColorado is one of a handful where you can marry yourselves.
You can even marry onlineUtah County issues licenses and holds ceremonies over video.
Hey there! I’m Sylvie, an NYC-based photographer specializing in elopements and intimate weddings. My work is all about celebrating the texture, motion, and ephemeral feeling of your milestone day in the city I’ve called home for the past 18 years.
Milly and her team capture love across America and the world, specializing in LGBTQ+ couples and body-positive wedding photography.
Choosing a wedding photographer isn’t just about finding someone who takes great photos—it’s about finding someone you trust to capture the real, unfiltered moments without turning your day into a production. With 11 years of experience, we know how to blend into the rhythm of your wedding, letting things unfold naturally while staying ready for whatever comes next.
I’m Sophia, the photographer behind Sophia Lewis Photography. I specialize in story-driven wedding and elopement photography across Colorado and beyond, documenting celebrations that are intentional, emotional, and deeply personal. My approach is rooted in connection and trust. I want you to feel comfortable enough to be fully yourselves so the photos reflect the real moments unfolding around you.
Lindsey is a queer, Boston- and NYC-based photographer with a soft spot for intimate weddings, elopements and any love celebration!
It’s just you, the love of your life, and a handful of your closest friends and family, celebrating your love, your commitment, and the life you want to build together.
I create and perform ceremonies and rituals of all varieties. In the process of getting to know people, from newborns and their families to nearlyweds to actively dying folks, I craft celebrations of life’s meaningful moments, both big and small.
Kassia Lee Photography is all about capturing real moments & raw emotion. The little things that make life so beautiful, from the laughter, the tears, to the smallest details, I’m here to document your story as it naturally unfolds.
Hi, I’m Vivian! I am a nature lover and visual storyteller who focuses on organic moments while highlighting a sense of space and showcasing your beloved communities authentically. I began my photography journey two decades ago, assisting high-end wedding photographers before branching out on my own. What started as a job became my purpose as I fell in love with storytelling through my art. I am incredibly lucky to spend my weekends surrounded by joy, having now captured over 500 weddings from lavish celebrations at luxury hotels to quiet, intimate elopements by the sea. Photography has been my passport to travel the world, connect with so many remarkable people, and play a part in sharing their stories.
Married by Miller Officiating is a one woman celebrancy business owned by Joanna Miller. A Washington, DC area native who lived in Australia for four years, Joanna specializes in creating custom ceremonies for couples from different religious, cultural and racial backgrounds.
Hey, I’m Laura Sparks and I specialize in elopements and intimate weddings because I 1000% believe it’s the best way to get married! (Like, for real! My wife and I eloped in Olympic National Park in Sept ’23!) I seriously have the best job ever because I get to help lovers create a day that is authentic, where you can completely be yourselves, and have the best damn day EVER. From location and vendor recommendations, to creating the perfect timeline for you, I’ve got you covered!
Candid, laid-back, queer destination photographer celebrating LGBTQ+ love, from epic city weddings, to mountaintop elopements.
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Same-sex couples have been able to marry in every state since the Supreme Court’s 2015 Obergefell decision. The Respect for Marriage Act added federal protection in 2022, and in November 2025 the Supreme Court declined to hear a case that asked it to revisit Obergefell. Your marriage is legal, and it’s recognized in every state.
You get your license where you’re getting married, not where you live, and each state sets its own rules. Waiting periods, how long a license lasts, whether you need witnesses and who can officiate all vary, so check the county clerk’s website for your wedding location early on.
Most states need an officiant, and in many of them a friend can get ordained online to do the honors. Some states and cities ask officiants to register first. A few states, Colorado among them, let you skip the officiant and solemnize your marriage yourselves.
Utah County runs a fully online license and ceremony process, and you don’t need to be in Utah to use it. Our guide to getting legally married online walks you through it.
Yes. Same-sex couples have been able to marry nationwide since 2015, and the Respect for Marriage Act of 2022 requires every state to recognize marriages legally performed in other states.
Generally, no. You get a license from the place you’re marrying, wherever you live. Check that county’s clerk for its specific rules and timing.
In most states, yes, usually after getting ordained online. Some states and cities ask officiants to register before the wedding, so check local rules early.
In a few states, yes. Colorado is the best known. Elsewhere you will need an officiant or a judge.
Yes. Utah County issues licenses and holds ceremonies fully online. The officiant must be in Utah, but the two of you can be anywhere.
Legal details last checked October 2026. Always confirm with the county clerk where you plan to marry.
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